We both know how stubborn they can be, and I can only imagine the amount of convincing that was necessary to rid them of these atrocities. Truly, girlfriends near and far praise you for getting our men past these roadblocks, and guiding them down the proverbial road that ended in us. Know that he listened.
You eventually moved on from that fling and wound up in a relationship yourself. He listened to how shattered you were and your pain left him feeling hurt, too.
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Years later, you texted him the raunchy details of hooking up with one of your mutual friends. Your feelings were left conflicted because of the messy situation, and he listened to the depths of your confusion.
He ended up doing me one better — he called. When that girl who was lookiny any good for him you know the one — the streaky blonde highlights made cheating on me an option, he made sure she knew that he never did.
Because of you. He made these choices because he listened to you.
He chose me because he listened to you. In fact, a lot of things you guys used to do together will now involve me. I promise you, platonic girlfriend, it is truly okay.
We both love him. And he loves us.
So, realize that the time your best friend spends with me is time well spent. Make an effort. Stop extending him exclusive invitations to hang out and getting disappointed when it never happens.
When you finally see us out, stop spending the entire time shoving your new life developments in his ear, or loudly cackling about some obscure event in your past that would be impossible for me to relate to. Talk to me.