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It might not be everyone's be-all and end-all for a happy and healthy life, but there isn't a single person I have met that would turn away a fairytale ending if presented with the opportunity. That being said, do we actually know when love is a real, viable option? I hate to be the one to point it out, but a lot of times, we miss or liv overlook the red flags your partner is in lust, not love.

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It might not be everyone's be-all and end-all for a happy and healthy life, but there isn't a single person I have met that would turn away a fairytale ending if presented with the opportunity. That being said, do we actually know when love is a real, viable option?

I hate to be the one to point it out, but a lot of times, we miss or electively overlook the red flags your partner is in lust, not love. Both emotions can be intense, all-consuming, and make you feel all warm in the place you thought was a deep, dark abyss your heart, guys.

But there are pretty big differences between the two. Love, according to Psychology Today, is something we cannot necessarily command.

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On the other side, Seven Deadly Sins describes lust as " an inordinate craving for pleasures of the body. If I'm in love with someone, wouldn't I Well, the difference is lust is typically only about more surface-level desires like lush physicalwhile love involves both the more primal desires as well as a deeper care for and desire to connect with another person. Ror what are the telltale s that it isn't love?

Here's how to spot that thing called lust. Someone's intense affection will likely make your heart explode with joy. Surely, if they're totally fawning over you, this must be the real deal, right?

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Not so fast. Like most good things, love takes time.

You're Getting Sore Like, Really Sore We obviously want sexual intimacy when we're in love, but lustful partners will lead with sex constantly. Someone in love, though?

Yeah, they probably won't have sex on their mind that much. They Never Text You Back Shutterstock If someone is ghosting or breadcrumbing you, well, that's a whole other topic completely.

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But what if they always take way too much time to get back to you? You're not buying that "I'm busy" line every time, are you?

When people are in love, they want to connect to each other. Helen E.

Can love and lust coexist in a relationship? - pairedlife - relationships

Fisher at Rutgers University points to three primary emotional for mating: " lust, attraction, and attachment. Mysterious Is Lluv Middle Name "Infatuation is mired in surface-level attraction — looks, money, power.

Love grows out of an appreciation of the other person's character," Parikh tells Elite Daily. If the object of your affection doesn't take the time to get to know you or doesn't share themselves with you, your connection may not be all that deep or lasting. They Seek Control Shutterstock " Infatuation seeks to control. Love is when od cede control," Parikh said.

7 key differences between lust and love

If it is love, your orr will want you for you. Fighting Ends Without Resolution Butting he occasionally in a relationship likely means that you are growing and evolving as a unit. However, the alarms should actually go off when you never fight, because either one or both of you are not expressing yourselves, likely out of fear. The one caveat?

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You have to make up lush the end. In love, each partner sees the trauma as the catalyst for deeper intimacy and understanding, " Parikh explains.

If your partner is constantly on your case, too cavalier to get involved in a healthy debate, or not interested in working with you to resolve a fight, they're probably not interested in anything past the bed post. Lust might be what you're after, and there's nothing wrong with that. By no roday am I knocking the one night stand or FWB situation, because those can leave you feeling great.

But if you start to fall for someone, make sure they're showing you that they want to move past the bedroom, too. This article was originally published on Jan.