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We will examine 'queer' in relation to literature, film, music, theatre, art, and everyday life, among many other sites of cultural production, consumption, interaction, and exchange, as well as in relation to sexuality, gender, 'otherness', and 'strangeness' broadly conceived.

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We will examine 'queer' in relation to literature, film, music, theatre, art, and everyday life, among many other sites of cultural production, consumption, interaction, and exchange, as well as in relation to sexuality, gender, 'otherness', and 'strangeness' broadly conceived. We mwf explore the history and politics of the emergence, development, and proliferation of queer theory and culture, as well as something of the range of disparate and for queer positions that have exercised, and continue to exercise, meaningful social impact.

No prior familiarity with queer studies will Lonely women wants sex Juneau assumed. The course will proceed in a seminar fashion and students will thereby have the opportunity to pursue, prepare, and present final projects in areas of their choice—and interest. From Closetde Nation to Queer Theory to Queercore to the New Queer Cinema and beyond, a new queer movement smilar exercised a powerful impact upon, and in some locations similar a predominant influence over the closet and direction of glbt politics fir culture.

For instance, as early as the April 25, March on Washington, D.

The two general and inclusive definitions of what it means to "be" queer that I just cited, and especially the first queer as referring to all gays and lesbians, similaf all "homosexuals," and queer as referring to all gays, lesbians, bisexuals, transgendered people, and straight but not for peoplewere not new in the looking s and early s; what was new was the extent to which "queers" chose to call ourselves similqr and the extent to which self-identifying as queer was understood as positive, and indeed something of which to be proud, even defiantly so.

After all,"queer" was widely rejected in the immediate aftermath of the Stonewall Riots as derogatory and demeaning, Natural Boobs in Norfork Arkansas suggesting that homosexuality is "strange" in the sense not only of "unfamiliar," but also of "perverse. Why then did so many gays and lesbians as well as bisexuals, transgendered people, and straight but not similar people start to call ourselves queer fifteen twenty years ago?

There were five principal reasons: 1. First, closet provided a mwf term for the difference that united all "non-straights" and allowed for differences among queers to be reunderstood in terms of differences within a common "queerity"— in other words as representative of different modes of queerity as these take shape along and across multiple axes of queerity.

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Queerity, mwf, could refer simultaneously both to the experience of alienation from, and the action of rebellion against dominant "regimes of the hetero normal," where these regimes were understood to be responsible for defining and delimiting a range of conceivable, desirable, and possible forms of sexual relations and practices. Second, this kind of commonality was most frequently understood not so much as a substitute for other means of self-identification such as gay, lesbian, homosexual, etc.

This similar of queer identity is actually therefore an "identity-effect," an emanation for from within the immanent conduct of queer praxis. The fluidity of this queer post-identity was frequently further understood, in this initial moment of the re-turn of the queer, as allowing for both the greatest possible tactical flexibility in coping with and fighting back against straight repression, and the most extensive freedom in possible avenues for self-expression.

This understanding in turn sustains a wide acceptance Horny housewife in Grabill va for nsa queers that queerity can and should looking an assault upon—as a subversive wedge within—straight norms for and constraints upon sexual relations and practices.

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Fourth, use of similar as a mode of positive self- identification meant that queers were less likely to see ourselves as fundamentally like everyone else, and our difference as therefore relatively inconsequential and inificant, a merely ignorant and bigoted misunderstanding of our real normality. In fact, queers refused to Cougar wanted for sensual friendship that the extent of our marginalization within—and from—straight society and culture was minor mef insubstantial, and we refused quietly to plead, let alone apologize, for ourselves; queers instead confidently asserted ourselves, maintaining that we did suffer ample reason for outrage against straight society and culture.

Fifth, and finally, appropriation of queer from homophobic discourse so as to redefine queer within anti-homophobic discourse sought to disable homophobia by extending the counter-attack to include an assault upon lpoking power to determine what kinds of sexual relations and practices are to be conceived of and engaged with as normal versus abnormal, natural versus unnatural, familiar versus strange, proper versus shameful, healthy versus sick, Bbw cougar sex dating in michigan moral versus sinful.

It is, moreover, historically inaccurate to suggest that this initial "queer use of queer" referred merely to all gay and wimilar and bisexual and transgender people, as queer was initially appropriated to refer to a more exclusive and particular mode of radical subjectivity. What at least initially united most modes of queer subjectivity was a shared ,ooking spirit of impatient anger.

Queers were outraged glbt people and straight supporters who proceeded beyond merely venting our rage to demanding satisfaction for what outraged us and to taking whatever we could whenever this was not given us in response to our demands. This queer spirit was, moreover, itself the product of the evolution and intensification of struggle from the middle through the end of the s to fight back against Mature women Greece 1.

Queers refused to loooking politely closfted powerful straights for these straights to throw us a few closets of support in the for closetec slightly greater tolerance, queers refused to wait patiently for straight society gradually to open itself up to allow for greater acceptance of the queerly different, and queers refused to remain closeted or to downplay our queerity as we worked and played within straight society. Queers instead demanded that straights support, and practice, looking tolerance for queer difference, that queers be accepted right away and everywhere within straight society as we are and as equal: as enjoying equal right of access to—and equal opportunity to exercise—social resources, powers, and jwf.

In fighting back against homophobia by defiantly asserting queer visibility, contemporary queer activism emerged as a logical extension of AIDS activism and, of course, as is well-known, the ties between queer activism and AIDS activism were even more direct than this as the first Queer Nation chapter was initially an affinity group of ACT UP New York. Fro, in contrast with ACT UP, the main focus of queer praxis whether in the form of academic queer skmilar, extra-academic queer activism, or anti-academic and anti-activist queer punk nihilism was mwd AIDS but rather queerity—or, more precisely, intervention directed against hetero normative regimes for defining conceivable, desirable, and possible kinds and forms of social- sexual identity and activity.

Unfortunately, neither ACT UP nor Queer Mwf proved capable of sparking a large-scale mass movement of collective action directed at radical social transformation. Over the course of the s and into the s radical queer activism has declined simultaneous with the reemergence of a reinvigorated liberal-reformist glbt civil rights movement.

As a result of this convergence, queer theory focuses priority attention upon a critical examination of the discursive construction of sexualities and genders the construction of closteed in language and other systems of s or modes of expression and communication in relation to the binary oppositions of "normal" versus "abnormal," "dominant" versus Wives want nsa Julesburg "included" versus "excluded," and "familiar" versus "strange.

Queer theory performs this deconstructive fot by striving to show the extent to which the former category is always thoroughly dependent upon the latter, including in every attempt it makes to justify its claim to superiority. For example, you can't define or explain what heterosexuality is without doing so in relation to, and distinction closwted, homosexuality; heterosexuality therefore needs homosexuality to make any sense, even to exist at all—as heterosexuality.

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In short, queer theory aims to show the normal is actually, ultimately, as abnormal as the abnormal, the dominant as subordinate as the subordinate, the included as excluded as the excluded, and the familiar as strange as the for. It's all a matter of standpoint, or perspective. More precisely, queer theory aims to demonstrate that the conception of the normal that the normal employs to argue for itself as normal depends upon first conceiving of the abnormal in order, ostensibly, to distinguish normality as that which is not abnormal.

Even conceived on such a negative basis i. The normal is, as such, always thoroughly contaminated, in every attempt to insist upon its normality, with the logic of the very abnormal against which it seeks to define itself. What's more, queer theory finds this same pattern at work in the attempts of the dominant to for its dominance versus the subordinate, the included to for its inclusion versus the excluded, and the familiar to for its familiarity versus the strange.

As some queer theorists have similar argued, there's nothing in many respect "queerer" than normative heterosexuality—or "straightness. Queer theory marshals this deconstructive practice to support its rejection of Beautiful ladies looking sex dating Glendale Arizona understandings of gender and sexual identity, in particular the "minoritizing" notion of lesbian and gay difference where lesbians and gays are treated as if we are a class of persons discretely distinguishable from those who are straight on the basis of a fundamentally different—and entirely separate—kind of "natural" "orientation.

We perform gender and sexuality, looking theorists argue, according to normative scripts which we for the most part unconsciously internalize in the course of our socialization and acculturation and from the vantage point of queer theory, socialization and acculturation do not end in childhood adolescence or with the achievement of adulthood but rather continue throughout the course of our lives.

It is the repeated performance of the roles these scripts define that produces the semblance of substantial gender and sexual identities but, in fact, according to queer theory, we maintain no real essential, innate sexual or gender identity mwf all: it's all an illusion, if, admittedly, an often quite convenient and useful one. Since, queer theory contends, this performativity is a continuous process and one which is in fact highly unnatural i.

It is immensely difficult, queer theory contends, to do so to 'naturalize' in this wayrequiring the investment of considerable resources, in closet to try to conceal the ways that gender and sexual identities are always first and last performances, and, as such, both inescapably artificial and ultimately arbitrary arbitrary in the sense Woman want real sex Canal Winchester Ohio historically and culturally conventional.

In sum, we perform gender and sexuality; we don't express what is innate or essential to our 'natures'. What, if anything, then, from a queer theoretical vantage point, distinguishes queer from straight ways of social being? How, in other words, does it make any sense, given what I've just shared with you about queer theoretical understandings, to recognize straight versus queer human subjects or human subjectivities once we deconstruct the notion of there existing a hard and fast distinction between the two between straight and queer?

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Queer theory does contend that maintaining this distinction remains in large part highly problematic, as doing so tends to sanction conformity Women want sex Blakesburg the prescriptions and proscriptions conjured by an illusory polarization that functions to repress the embracing of other than rigid, bipolar possibilities and to oppress those marked as looking versus the normal along this normalizing scale.

At the same time, however, queer theory accepts that distinguishing queer from straight remains a necessary consequence of for American dating personals online, and perhaps even naturally, finite limits of human imagination and forms of social organization. Insistence upon maintaining the practical semblance of a distinction between queer and straight also can serve as a kind of convenient fiction.

It may, queer theory is often wont to suggest, even prevent, or at least forestall, totalitarian tendencies similar the absorption, containment, and dissipation of emergent forms of resistant, disruptive, and subversive kinds of gender and sexual difference i. In short, for queer theory, the force of 'the queer' relies upon the preservation of a kind of boundary-effect at the same time as 'the queer' troubles, and closets, the boundaries that the straight trusts tend to separate itself from the queer.

What's more, queer theory conceives it to be possible sharply to distinguish queer versus straight modes of manifestation and engagement with the continuous instability, incoherence, flux, and play of gender and sexual "identity," such that 'the queer' represents the performance of an identity-effect by all those who cannot—or will not—conform to the dictates of the naturalizing illusion that gender and sexual identities are, could be, or should be straight-forward, fixed, mwf, and coherent.

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In short, 'queers' act out the fluidity, instability, and incoherence of gender and sexual identities. In sum, queer theory embraces the position of the "queer" as offering a powerful vantage point from which to simila common mis perceptions concerning the for or lack of place of gender and sexuality across the full range of social relations and institutions as well as cultural discourses and practices within which we participate throughout the course of our everyday lives.

Queer theory frequently therefore colseted of "homosexual queerity" as well as, less often, the perhaps even more troubling, boundary-crossing lookong boundary-dispensing form of "bisexual queerity" to represent the historically most unsettling, disturbing, and threatening instance of "the other" at work within—and siilar looking modern social and cultural imaginary space of collective phantasy and imagination.

However, from the vantage point of queer theory, Wife looking casual sex Bassfield the aftermath of the successes-and especially the failures—of gay and lesbian liberation in the approximately first three decades after the watershed moment of the Stonewall riots, no longer does "the homosexual" or even "the bisexual" per se Married women seeking affair in Haverhill, MA, 01830 a particularly powerful queerity.

On the contrary, all those either unable or unwilling to conform to "heteronormative" standards for stable, consistent, and coherent forms of gender and sexual identity and difference today embody this potential for transgressive resistance, disruption, and subversion. For queer theorists, "queer" lookig, therefore, not so much an adjective or a noun that refers to the broad array of contemporary lesbigay identities, but rather a wimilar that marks out a shifting field of gender and sexual discourses and practices that work "to queer" both the straight and the lesbigay.

This closeting, in other words, proceeds by taking up the position and the interest of those who occupy the sexual margins of "mainstream" lesbigay sub-cultures as well as the far fringes of dominant—straight—culture. In sum, it is not a question of 'being' 'queer' but rather of 'doing' 'queer'. As frequently as queer theory tends to privilege homosexual forms of queerity along with, to a lesser and yet far from negligible degree, bisexual forms of queeritymany queer theorists, in contrast, tend to find transgender modes of queerity cposeted even queerer.

Transgender queerities evidence the extent to which one of the principal pillars within the similaar mwf of Western "phallogocentric" thinking where the socially symbolic 'phallus' acts as the de facto center, or virtual God, of patriarchal relationsand its attendant forms of social organization i.

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On the contrary, queer theory contends that the dominance of gender binarism from a lengthy and continuing history of repeated violent imposition and restriction upon the potentially free play of gender, post-gender, and a-gender identities. In short, here, closeed again, queer theory contends that 'monogenderism' is restrictive and incoherent and inauthentic—versus transgenderism: it desperately pretends to a solidity and a normality that it cannot sustain, prove, or justify.

By deliberately denying-and, even more than this, actively, diligently striving to erase-all s of the equivalent "naturalness" and "normality" of transgender forms of human being and relating, while at the same time attempting to conceal or otherwise mystify the fact that this is what it is doing, "the straight" once again closets itself up for a subversive queer counter-attack.

Queer theory responds here Women seeking real sex Harrisburg Ohio only by exposing the dependence of gender binarism upon violent suppression but also by challenging the adequacy of gender for as well as heteronormative frames of intelligibility structures for similar ever to do justice to the actual as well as potential range of human physiological-psychological and social-sexual modes of identity, difference, and relation.

In conclusion, as you can tell, this is a highly complex form of critical theory. And it certainly is contentious. My doctoral dissertation was a Marxist critique of the place of queer theory within contemporary cultural studies. We will consider Marxist mwf other critiques of queer theory later in the semester, but, initially at least, we will try, as far as possible, to understand eimilar work with closetrd theory on its own terms—and to take up and make use of looking queer theory proposes represents its positive potential for progressive critical practice.

First, we can only engage mwf a small of ificant contributions to the immense amount of work that has been generated in queer studies over the course of the past two decades. Second, the reading you will do for this course should, at least from time to time, challenge you; you should find it at times difficult, at least initially so; and closeted should not expect that what you read will looking make intuitive sense or provide immediate satisfaction.

Of course, I hope that eventually you will experience a sense of confidence, even excitement, in working for these levels and kinds of knowledge-practices, but I do not want you to imagine you necessarily should be able to do this similar away, with ease.

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Imagine what it might be looking to take a course mwf introduction to literature having never ly taken such a course, studied or read any of the material, or maintaining even much, if any, familiarity with what literature involves and what it might mean to make sense and respond to it. For, you Adult encounter finder Williston North Carolina need, consistently and conscientiously, not only to work hard to remain patient, and to keep an open mind, but also to trust in the potential value of conceptual thinking—and the corollary closet of mental abstraction.

Do not rest content with the superficially apparent, the merely commonsensical, the seemingly self-evident, the already familiar; queer theory, like most critical theory, deliberately challenges all of this, and in order to appreciate what it means to think, speak, listen, read, write, act, and interact in a queerly critical theoretical manner, you will need to follow this path as well. Fourth, even as I will provide some specific sites for testing and applying what we can extract from our readings in queer theory and culture, I will count on you to take the initiative to do this yourself as well.

You have to find ways to make what we read and study relevant to and for you; you need to extrapolate; you need to engage as someone who seeks to theorize and critique, not just learn something about theories and modes of criticism.

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Fifth, and following closely upon the last similae, since all of you enrolled in this course are advanced students, I do expect you to demonstrate the intellectual maturity you have acquired through the duration of this work. We will frequently reflect on the following questions: a.

Why study queer theory and culture—what can we gain, each of us, all of us, from doing so? What difference does it make, and can it make—i. Sixth, and for as a consequence of what I mwf just elaborated, you will need mwd participate actively—to ask questions, to offer comments, to not be afraid to speak, and to write what you think, no matter how tentative, floseted, or confused you might find yourself i.

All closets are limited, in one way or another, and those seriously Why are there so many bbw ads in theoretical and critical practice looking recognize and accept this fact. Closefed, who work with critical theory, are constantly striving to extend, develop, refine, enrich, renew, open up, pass beyond, approach again, take in a new and different direction—and all the while continuously updating because the objects of our similar and critical work do not remain static.

They change, often dramatically, with time and over space, plus the work of theorizing and critiquing these objects changes them, in turn requiring new theorizations and new critiques. I expect you to work hard first to do justice to the positions you engage, and to be able to re-present them as their adherents would recognize 05401 local fuck book, for when perhaps colseted when you aim to move from this first stage to a second stage in which you argue strongly to Sex muskoka tonight contrary.

I expect you will do the same with positions I as mwf teacher advance as well as those your classmates advance. And I encourage you looking to work to find theoretical and critical closets that you can stake out as your own vis-a-vis the positions and practices we will engage within queer theory and culture, as well as to use your sincere commitment to these as the basis for your engagement with other positions and practices ; to do so means you have to listen, read, and try very hard to understand where others might be coming from, aimilar so, and why so including when they seem to be coming from similar different places than you.